Could You Be the Next Clara Harris?

Infidelity affects 80% of all marriages today. Current statistics indicate that the majority of women are likely to become victims of infidelity at some point in their lives – a situation for which most women are totally unprepared.

Any woman suddenly thrust into an infidelity situation could react the way Clara Harris did. Even though affairs develop in stages, they usually take most women by surprise. What would you do if it happened to you?

Below are 18 probing questions to ask yourself about your marriage and extramarital affairs. I call this questionnaire “The Clara Harris Quiz”

If Clara Harris had taken this quiz before learning about her husband’s affair, she would have answered no to almost every question on the list.

The questions force you to take a long hard look at yourself and your marriage. The answers will probably reveal more than you really want to know. But they can show you just how vulnerable you are to something you think (or hope) will never happen to you. Clara certainly never expected it to happen to her.

Your potential for becoming the next Clara Harris increases with each No answer you give. As you answer the questions with an honest “Yes” or “No,” take time to ponder what each question implies.

Could you be the next Clara Harris? Answer the questions below and find out.

1. Have you ever considered the possibility that your husband might have an affair?


2. Do you know how to recognize the telltale signs of infidelity – not just the obvious signs, but the subtle ones as well?


3. Are you familiar with the early warning signs of an affair?


4. Do you know what to do if you suspect your husband of having an affair?


5. Do you know your husband well enough to detect subtle changes in his behavior, habits or routine that could indicate a possible affair?


6. Do you know what you should avoid doing if you discover that your husband is having an affair?


7. Do you know how to tell if your husband is a potential cheater?


8. Have you and your husband ever discussed your feelings about infidelity or extramarital affairs?


9. Do you encourage your husband to openly discuss any complaints or disappointments he may have about you or the marriage?


10. Do you know the situations or circumstances that make a marriage vulnerable to an affair?


11. Do you periodically do a reality check or take stock of your marriage to insure that everything is okay?


12. Is there a trusted adult friend (or a trained professional) you can confide in about any marital problems that crop up?


13. Do you know how to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for the possibility of your husband having an affair?


14. Do you have an “infidelity plan” in place for handling the situation if your husband should have an affair?


15. Have you ever given any serious thought as to what you would do if your husband asked for a divorce?


16. If your husband were cheating, would you know the correct way to confront him about his affair?


17. Could you keep your emotions in check if you found out your husband was having an affair?


18. Do you know the best strategy for dealing with the Other Woman if your husband is having an affair?

What did your answers reveal? How close are you to becoming the next Clara Harris?

Now that you’ve taken this quiz, you may want to send for the Special Report entitled “How You Can Avoid Becoming the Next Clara Harris – Infidelity Information You Should Know.” To get your FREE copy of this Special Report, send an e-mail to InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with “Clara Harris Report” in the subject line.